Tuesday, December 30, 2008
Week 7: Strength and Stretching
Today I had some fruit and nuts for breakfast. Lunch was ham biscuits and green tea. Dinner is still pending. Since this blog is all about marking my words, I'll go ahead and document it here that starting this week, on strength and rest days I will balance out my diet and give myself a chance to recover. Looking back it seems like the Tuesday/Wednesday runs are always struggles followed by solid meals and a strong finish to the week. My guess is that this is the result of my diet kicking my butt. I'll fix that in the coming weeks and see what happens.
All in all a great day. I have an amazing wife, a great job, a great business, inspirational friends, and a big, big dream to chase. I'm blessed to be a blessing. Hope to see you all very soon.
Monday, December 29, 2008
Week 8: Long Run
Saturday, December 27, 2008
Week 8: Cross Training
Thursday, December 25, 2008
Week 8: Strength and Mid-Distance
Immediately after the run I had a Simply Nutrilite Joint Health Twist Tube and a 4 hour nap. For dinner we had prime rib, potato casserole, green beans with ham hocks, white house rolls (man I ate a lot of these while we were there) and an XS Gold Energy Drink. For dessert we had chocolate cheesecake squares, some ice cream and pecan pie. Yes, I know I abused the sweets, but they were sooooooooo good!
Tonight I slept HARD!!
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Week 8: Mid-Week Run
Afterwards I ate some ham and white house rolls, an XS Gold Energy Drink, Simply Nutrilite Sport Twist Tube, and took a nap. What a great Christmas Eve!!
On a side note, I probably walked another 2 miles that night running around with Shell looking at the last minute sales at the mall...this is why we shop online!!!
Tuesday, December 23, 2008
Week 8: Mid Distance
The road to my dad's house has a 3 tiered hill leading from the beginning to the end of the street. Each round trip lap takes me about 11:30 to complete. I did 4 laps. That was a bit longer than the workout called for, but the course by my house in Austin doesn't have many hills and I was long overdue for a little hill work.
The hills never feel good while you're running, but once you're done, boy do they feel great. After the first climb, I didn't even notice the temperature. Between my trusty yellow wind breaker and the sweats I borrowed from my dad, I was able to carry a nice sweat.
After the run, I had about a pound of pot roast and white house rolls. Did I mention my family are, across the board, hands down awesome cooks!! I washed it all down with a Tropical Punch XS Energy Drink, a joint health twist tube, and a couple glasses of water.
That night I slept well, knowing I'd earned the rest.
Sunday, December 21, 2008
Week 9: Long Distance
Saturday, December 20, 2008
Week 9: Strength and Mid-Distance
My legs were a bit sluggish, but I felt great the whole time. After about 20 minutes I noticed that I wasn't breathing hard and tried to pick up the pace. My legs didn't really respond. I felt good, mind you, my legs just wouldn't go any faster. When I got back I had a bowl of Activa vanilla yogurt with a Blueberry Antioxidant Nutrilite Twist Tube mixed in and a Lemon Nutrilite Meal Bar for some protein.
I didn't get a ton of sleep last night, so after I got out of the shower, I took an hour nap. That was the best decision I've made in weeks. As soon as I woke up, Shell surprised me with an awesome home cooked dinner. She baked Tilapia with a green bean, olive and french fried onion topping. It came out all pretty and smelling good and tasting good. I was blown away. What a great wife. What a great cook. She also made a greek potato salad to go with it.
They say men are simple. We only need three things to keep us strong at home. They call them the three S's: Supper, Sleep, and...you can figure out the other one. I pray everyone has a wife like Shell. She's always finding more and more ways to keep me strong every day so I can go out and fight for her and our future.
Praise God for the gift of today. I made it a good one.
Thursday, December 18, 2008
Week 9: Mid-Week Run
The run felt good. It was cold outside. I was in long shorts with a tshirt, long sleeve tshirt, and a running vest I got from SC08. Talk about a key pickup. That vest kept me toasty the entire time. I can't remember the last time I ran in weather like that and didn't feel my lungs freezing midway through. I'm definitely going to keep wearing that on cold days like today.
During intervals 2 and 4 I felt really strong. During intervals 1 and 3 I was loosening up. The long run ended too quickly. I could have run for another 2-3 miles no problem. That being said, my lower back is a bit stiff and I've been stretching throughout the evening. I'll be fine tomorrow, but for now I'm sore. It was a great day. It was a great run. God's blessing keep finding Shell and I everywhere we go. This is our platinum year. giddy-up.
Monday, December 15, 2008
Week 9: Strength and Stretching
Sunday, December 14, 2008
Week 10: Long Run
Strawberry Fresh Fruit Slushie1 cup frozen strawberries (thawed)1 can 7up1 simply nutrilite sports twist tube1.5 cups iceBlend the strawberries and ice first. add 7up and twist tube and blend on low until mixed. Pour and enjoy!!
Thursday, December 11, 2008
Week 10: Mid Distance
Monday, December 8, 2008
Week 10: Strength and Stretching
Sunday, December 7, 2008
Week 11: Long Run
Diet was horrible. Ambrosia Bakery grand opening. Late night coffee and fries. Chicken sandwich at 3am...yikes. No sleep tonight. Catch up tomorrow.
Saturday, December 6, 2008
Week 11: Skipped
Thursday, December 4, 2008
Week 11: Off Day
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
Week 11: Mid-distance
My run started at 1:30am. I went out about 15 minutes, then picked up the pace on the way back, cutting over a minute off the return trip. To make up the time I threw in a quick loop to the park and back. The sky was clear. The air was warm and humid. I felt fresh and strong. Afterwards I walked to the end of the street and back, stretched my legs and put down an immunity twist tube. No post-run meal since I had breakfast (Rudy-Tooty Fresh and Fruity at IHOP) right before. Great, great run!!!
Character isn't a big decision, it's 1000 small decisions a day. Tonight I kept my commitment despite how I felt. Tonight I earned my own self-respect one more time. What a great way to end the night.
Monday, December 1, 2008
Week 11: Strength and Recovery
Today Shell surprised me with Sushi and a fruit tart for dinner. I had a blueberry meal replacement bar for breakfast. No lunch. Still working on the diet.
Sunday, November 30, 2008
Week 12: Long Run
I had a Trim Advantage blueberry meal replacement bar before the run, about 16 ounces of water during the run, and some ham and tater tots for lunch afterwards. Later in the day I had pulled pork bbq, some peanut butter and celery, a raspberry twist tube and half a gallon of water.
Plenty of sleep last night. Feeling a bit exhausted emotionally, but strong otherwise.
Friday, November 28, 2008
Week 12: Off Day
Today I had some ham, biscuits, fries, 2 hot dogs, slice of apple pie and lots of water. I've got to get my diet under control. I'm really embarrassed looking at the fuel I'm running on these days. Thank God for double x.
Rion
Thursday, November 27, 2008
Week 12: Strength and Mid-distance
Not much strength training today. Will hit some more on Saturday.
Mood was excited.
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Week 12: Midweek run
Afterwards I ate some peanut butter and apples and had an xs plus energy drink. Love that B12!
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Week 12: Strength and Recovery
Afterwards I had a chocolate nut roll nutrilite sport bar and a cup of green tea. For some reason I haven't been able to focus all day. Maybe because i didn't drink any caffeen all day. Maybe because i just had a meal replacement bar for breakfast. I'm not sure. Either way, after a cup of green tea I felt better. Gotta get my diet straight soon.
Sunday, November 23, 2008
Week 13: Long Run
I took in about a pint of water during the run. I had a Blueberry Trim Advantage meal replacement bar and a raspberry glucosamine twist tube immediately afterwards. About two hours later, I had a peach tea XS energy drink. I'm feeling pretty good right now. My legs are stiffening up a bit, but I'll keep stretching throughout the day.
Saturday, November 22, 2008
Week 13: Cross Training
Thursday, November 20, 2008
Week 13: The Beginning
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
Iron Dreams

Tuesday, October 28, 2008
Why I Am Voting Democrat
I'm voting Democrat because I believe the government will do a better job of spending MY MONEY than I would. I think when you spread the wealth around it is good for everybody! It’s Patriotic!
I'm voting Democrat because I believe that business should not be allowed to make profits for themselves. All profits are evil and should be confiscated for Government Redistribution.
I'm voting Democrat because I believe that MORE Government regulations and higher taxes on Business will stop Business from exporting their jobs to Countries with LESS Government regulations and lower taxes.
I'm voting Democrat because I believe terrorists should be allowed to have trials in American courts. And be able to subpoena top secret documents, soldiers, government officials, etc. to cross examine for their defense. They should have ACLU lawyers who can help intimidate Americans who serve on the juries!
I'm voting Democrat because I believe Gay Marriage should be the law of the land and will probably produce better children.
I'm voting Democrat because I believe English should not be the official language of the United States. I don’t mind pushing one for English when I use the phone.
I'm voting Democrat because I believe partial birth abortion is okay but water boarding a terrorist is disgusting.
I'm voting Democrat because I believe having a domestic terrorist like Bill Ayers as a close friend is a good thing. It allows for great relations with foreign terrorists.
I'm voting Democrat because I believe in a FREE government health care system. I believe doctors, nurses, hospitals, drug companies, etc. will gladly donate their time, products, services, facilities, etc. for FREE and that will be a better system.
I'm voting Democrat because I believe in and support trial lawyers, frivolous lawsuits and outrageous jury verdicts.
I'm voting Democrat because I believe 9/11 was an inside job to con the American people to go to war for oil.
I'm voting Democrat because I believe social security is solvent and that there is a social security lock box and I don’t believe social security is a Ponzi scheme.
I'm voting Democrat because I believe MOST AMERICANS are bitter and cling to their guns and religion. Let’s rid our country of guns and religion!
I'm voting Democrat because I believe illegal aliens deserve all the rights of ordinary Americans plus some additional rights Americans do not have.
I'm voting Democrat because I believe corporations should pay higher taxes! I believe higher taxes on business will make the price of their products and services LESS EXPENSIVE.
I'm voting Democrat because I believe groups like ACORN who register felons, drug addicts, wino’s, homeless drifters, illegal aliens, dead people, children, fictional Disney characters, etc. makes my vote count more.
I'm voting Democrat because I believe celebrating the winter solstice shows compassion for the small minority of people that do not celebrate Christmas.
I'm voting Democrat because I believe hard core criminal murders and rapists deserve life and that the innocent unborn deserve death. It’s a choice I can live with.
I'm voting Democrat because I believe Bush caused Hurricane Katrina and he blew-up the levies in the ninth ward of New Orleans.
I'm voting Democrat because I believe that any one who is not partaking in one of the many wonderful government programs obviously has too much money and should pay higher taxes.
I'm voting Democrat because when we pull out of Iraq the terrorists will be happy and now think of us as good people.
I'm voting Democrat because I believe our soldiers are AIR RAIDING villages and killing innocent people.
I'm voting Democrat because I believe sex in the Oval Office with an intern is a private matter and that everybody lies under oath about sex.
I'm votin Demokrat becuse I wus edumkated at a publick sckrool. I lik da Natsionel Edukatshun Assoseeashun!
I'm voting Democrat because freedom of speech is fine as long as it does not offend people. Can’t we all just get along?
I'm voting Democrat because I believe oil companies' profits are wrong. I believe higher taxes on oil companies will produce lower prices at the pump.
I'm voting Democrat because I believe we need to rid ourselves of dependency on foreign oil, BUT I AM AGAINST offshore drilling for oil and natural gas, drilling in Anwar, building nuclear power plants and clean coal technology.
And finally, I'm voting Democrat because I believe Reverend Wright when he said “GODDAMN AMERICA” and “OUR CHICKENS ARE COMING HOME TO ROOST”. Hey let’s make a comfortable nest for those chickens!
Why are you voting Democrat?
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
Obama - The change I don’t want!
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In capitalism, the people are expected to be independent and self reliant, making their own way as best suits their individual talents. They are expected to be self supporting by working and improving themselves without government aid or intervention.
Under socialism, eventually the people stop thinking and doing for themselves and just depend completely on the government. It happened in
America has resisted the spread but each year, the liberal media , left wing politicians, and minorities scream for more and more government programs, more government help, and less freedom.
As the old saying goes, the squeaking wheel gets the grease, and these groups certainly have been squeaking for a long time.
Political freedom does not mean the majority is free to impose on individual rights, it means the majority is forbidden from imposing on individual rights, no matter how big a majority may be.
Constitutionally, the government is required to step between a mob and an individual to ensure the mob does not interfere with rights.
Currently our government not only does not step in, they become part of the mob.
"A wise and frugal government, which shall restrain men from injuring one another, which shall leave them otherwise free to regulate their own pursuits of industry and improvement, and shall not take from the mouth of labor the bread it has earned. This is the sum of good government, and this is necessary to close the circle of our felicity."
-Thomas Jefferson, First Inaugural Address.
Now lets talk about socialized medicine and health care....Health care is NOT a right!!
Observe that all legitimate rights have one thing in common: they are rights to action, not to rewards from other people. The American rights impose no obligations on other people, merely the negative obligation to leave you alone. The system guarantees you the chance to work for what you want -- not to be given it by somebody else without effort on yourself.
The right to life, e.g., does not mean that your neighbors have to feed and clothe you; it means you have the right to earn your food and clothes yourself, if necessary by a hard struggle, and that no one can forcibly stop your struggle for these things or steal them from you if and when you have achieved them. In other words: you have the right to act, and to keep the results of your actions, the products you make, to keep them or to trade them with others, if you wish. But you have no right to the actions or products of others, except on terms to which they voluntarily agree.
To take one more example: the right to the pursuit of happiness is precisely that: the right to the pursuit -- to a certain type of action on your part and its result -- not to any guarantee that other people will make you happy or even try to do so. Otherwise, there would be no liberty in the country: if your mere desire for something, anything, imposes a duty on other people to satisfy you, then they have no choice in their lives, no say in what they do, they have no liberty, they cannot pursue their happiness. Your "right" to happiness at their expense means that they become right-less serfs, i.e., your slaves. Your right to anything at others' expense means that they become right-less.
Under the American system you have a right to health care if you can pay for it, i.e., if you can earn it by your own action and effort. But nobody has the right to the services of any professional individual or group simply because he wants them and desperately needs them. The very fact that he needs these services so desperately is the proof that he had better respect the freedom, the integrity, and the rights of the people who provide them.
You have a right to work, not to rob others of the fruits of their work, not to turn others into sacrificial, right-less animals laboring to fulfill your needs.
As with any good or service that is provided by some specific group of men, if you try to make its possession by all a right, you thereby enslave the providers of the service, wreck the service, and end up depriving the very consumers you are supposed to be helping. To call "medical care" a right will merely enslave the doctors and thus destroy the quality of medical care in this country, as socialized medicine has done around the world, wherever it has been tried, including
Doctors are not servants of their patients. They are traders, like everyone else in a free society, and they should bear that title proudly, considering the crucial importance of the services they offer.
Now on the topic of public "free" education in
There is no such thing as a 'right' to education', since such a 'right' makes slaves of those who are physically forced to pay or teach for someone else's so called right. For this reason alone public schooling should not be saved, or reformed, but it should be abolished -- as it is a violation of individual (human) rights.
The price of a "free" (state-funded) public education is freedom. The socialist notion that there is such a thing as a "free" education is a monstrous myth -- anything of value must be paid for. The state per say produces nothing, all state funds are forcibly taken from others through taxes, etc. When one recommends the "state funding of education to preserve freedom", one is asking that the freedom of one's fellow citizens be abridged, that their wealth be looted by public officials, all for the alleged purpose of protecting freedom. This is a contradiction in terms: freedom of action under a system of rights, is never preserved by the violation of those rights. That is, no matter how good the alleged ends, evil means are never justified.
In the short-term, the political solution is tax credits for education. This will allow people (who pay for public schools through their taxes) a tax credit which can be used to pay for the private (or public) school of their choice, or it can even be used for home schooling. Individuals, or businesses, can even use the money to pay for someone else's education, and then receive a tax credit. More importantly, tax credits will transfer fiscal control from bureaucrats back to individuals, thus forcing public schools to compete in the market for dollars -- just like private schools do.
My views on robbing from the rich to give to the poor….
For those of you who say that capitalists distribute wealth unfairly, I ask that you really think about what you are saying. Capitalism "distributes" wealth justly, i.e. to those who earned it, in proportion to how much they produced. For example, do you really think that it is "fair" for me to pay a large portion of my hard earned money just so someone can sit on their behind all day and not have to work for it like everyone else. Wealth is not a "collective resource" to be distributed by some totalitarian or his cronies, but is produced by individuals. Wealth belongs to the individual who produced it. It is not an amorphous public good to be distributed by looters for the aid of moochers. That a man does not have wealth and another does, is no excuse for the first to rob the latter -- neither is it a moral justification for the state to rob the first for the benefit of the latter.
Just in case you are wondering, YES, I am against welfare -- the extortion of wealth from those who produce by the "humanitarians" in government, to be distributed to those who consume (but do not produce), is to render the producers slaves and the "humanitarians" thieves. Whether the thief is wearing a ski mask, or is a dressed in a pinstripe suit with the letters IRS labeled on it, does not change the nature of their actions in principle: both are looters as both are initiators of force. With one exception, the man wearing the ski mask is more honest: he is not a big enough hypocrite to tell the citizen that he is robbing him of his hard earned wealth "for his own good", or even worse "for the good of the people."
As for poverty, no poor man is prohibited from creating a fortune. Observe that in late 19th century and early twentieth century
Which is the poor better off under? A Mother Teresa who hands them bowls of slop every day, so they can barely exist -- or a genius like Bill Gates who creates a fortune for himself by helping others to create fortunes for themselves, i.e., "where the first feeds them for a day, the second helps them feed themselves." Observe that it is the Bill Gates of the world who are not allowed to exist in
Capitalism is the only social system that results in peace and prosperity. As history has shown, the greatest period of world peace was during 19th century predominantly capitalist America . Please observe that in the 20th century the major world wars were all started by the anti-capitalist collectivist countries.
Obama is not promoting a 'Change we can believe in," he is promoting a change that we need to reject!! The bottom line is that Obama wants to turn
posted by Mrs. Rachelle Dooley
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
Play to win
Too many of us are walking around with tremendous weight on our shoulders because we never really heard anyone tell us what right expectation was. Too many times we look to the world for our sense of purpose and position. We end up comparing our worst to the world's best and we lose every time. God's expectation for our life has nothing to do with material trappings like careers, status, money, homes, or even the size of your church. God's expectation for our lives is entirely about our relationship with Him.
Let's look at a scenario and see if you can identify the right expectation.
You went to a top 25 school and graduated in the top 15% of your class. Now, 10 years out of school, you have switched jobs 5 times, the last two being in a completely different field than your degree. You work hard day in and day out, but don't feel like you've found your niche yet. Are you:Which did you pick? I'd argue the latter two probably let you sleep better at night, but that none of them are based on a foundation of truth. We're not defined by our job or circumstances. It doesn't matter if you work one job for 50 years, or have 50 jobs in a single year. We are defined by who we are in Christ.
- Ashamed at your nomadic tendencies and desperately seeking any opportunity to "catch a break" so you can really make a career out of your current job?
- Expecting the axe to fall any time and praying to God that you can find a new job while there's still more money than month .
- Applying to night school because you see how your successful friends - who all stayed in school, got their Masters' degree and drive nice cars - live.
- Happy to have a job and comfortable that if you lose this one, something else will come along because you believe in yourself.
Think about it. God himself sent His only son to die for us, so we could spend eternity with Him in heaven. Along the way He gave to us all the power and authority of His son as well as equal ownership of this world and the next. When we accepted Jesus into our lives the life we lived up to that moment died away, and we were reborn as an inheriter of the Kingdom. Through Christ we are now the kid of a king. That is the truth. That is the reality of life.
With that in mind, let's look at what JFK said again. "To whom much is given,..." What is it exactly we've been given? Is it intelligence? A name? Physical talents? No. Everyone who accepts Jesus is given the same gift, it's the gift of life. Matthew 25:14-30 tells the parable of the talents. The point of the story isn't what he originally gave each servant, it's that each was responsible for doing something with the gift they were given.
As a culture, I think we get too caught up on talent. I'm not sure why. It starts when we're young. Coaches tell parents their kid can run or jump or throw better than the rest, so he's going to grow up and be "special." Teachers tell parents their kids are "gifted" and need to be put with other "gifted" kids so they can blossom to their full potential. Relatives, friends, members of the community all notice that one child who stands out from the crowd. "That kid is meant to do something great," they say.
Hogwash. Talent is no indicator of success. "Do you know where most of the seeds of greatness are planted? In graveyards." Most people will go to the grave never using the gifts God placed in them. We spend our lives praying for new or different gifts because again, we're comparing our worst to the world's best and making ourselves miserable.
Forget about talent. You've got enough. Trust me. There's not a single person on this earth who had a any input into the talent with which they were born. None of us stood around before creation negotiating with God what he would and would not put into us when we were born. No one sat down with God and said, "Listen, here's what I want..."
Whatever talent we have is a gift from God. There's nothing special about the ability to sing or dance or run or see. No one talent is more meaningful than another. Praise God He gave us any talent at all. The credit for anything we have goes to Him. It's all His doing, not ours. The only reason he gave us any gifts in the first place was so we could fulfill the second part of the quote, "...much is expected."
We were given our talents so that we would be able to fulfill His expectation of us which are:
"You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your strength, and with all your mind. And you must love your neighbor as yourself."Why? Because in doing that, we are most like Christ. In living as Christ, we can minister to those around us by example and in doing so, build His kingdom. That's the whole of the story.
-- Luke 10:27
Now back to where I started. Faith. Many times we get caught up in frustration, worry, anxiety, doubt, depression, and anger because we are not where we think we should be in life. We feel guilty because we have not lived up to our expectations and we begin manifesting all these emotions as a result.
Ask yourself where your expectations are coming from? There's only one expectation you have to meet and that's whether or not you're letting God use up every ounce of talent He put in you. On the day of judgement, He won't care about how fast we paid off the house or how quickly we were promoted at work. He'll ask two questions. "Jesus, did you two know each other?" and "How did you advance my kingdom?" He won't care that one was given more than the other to work with, He'll just want to know what we did with what we were given.
So, as we race our way up the corporate ladder we find ourselves questioning God and praying for help to change our situation, we should first ask, why are we unhappy? Perhaps our expectations aren't quite lining up with what he wills. We've got one shot at life. Let's make sure we're aiming at the right target.
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
Price of your dreams
your greatest helper or heaviest burden.
I will push you onward or drag you down
to failure. I am completely at your command.
Half the things I do you might as well
turn over to me and I will be able to do
them quickly and correctly.
I am easily managed - you must merely
be firm with me. Show me exactly how you
want something done and after a few
lessons I will do it automatically. I am the
servant of all great individuals and, alas, of
all failures as well. Those who are great, I
have made great. Those who are failures,
I have made failures.
I am not a machine, though I work
with all the precision of a machine plus
the intelligence of a human. You may run
me for profit or run me for ruin - it
makes no difference to me.
Take me, train me, be firm with me,
and I will place the world at your feet. Be
easy with me and I will destroy you.
Who am I?
I am Habit.
Sunday, September 14, 2008
"Responsibility Strengthens Your Talent"
I really enjoy Maxwell's writings because he has a great grasp of marketing and salesmanship. From the title to the stories, he has a gift for getting and keeping my attention. Today was no exception. I was looking across the display when one of his newer books, Talent Is Never Enough, caught my eye.
In the book he has a chapter entitled "Responsibility Strengthens Your Talent." What a great title. It's like something out of a John Mason book. I had to find out more. I'm glad I did.
The chapter (and really the book) basically makes the argument that talent won't mature into gifted leadership without a stimulus of grow. That stimulus in this case is responsibility. Here are some highlights as I understood them:
- Responsibility provides the foundation for success. Success cannot come without a challenge. A challenge cannot be won without first accepting the responsibility of fighting to the finish. He makes a great point that our founding fathers left a huge hole in the design of the nation. They wrote the Bill of Rights, but declined to draft a Bill of Responsibility. In doing so, they told us what we were entitled to, but failed to call us to be the people God wants us to be.
- Responsibility handled correctly leads to more responsibility. Once a person shows themselves worthy of a task, they no longer be given simpler tasks. Success breeds success.
- Responsibility maximizes ability and opportunity. As an employee, it's our responsibility to be a contributor. We are hired to produce. That is our job. Not working is more than wrong, it's criminal. On the other side, by performing, we grow as employees. When leaders find responsible people, they reward them with opportunities and resources to be more effective.
- Responsibility over time builds solid reputation. Simply being consistent and dependable will build your reputation. Maintaining your responsibilities day in and day out lets people know you are a person of character in whom they can trust.
- Start where you are. Start small. Build on your successes, however small. How do you eat an elephant... Often times the best helping hand you will ever receive is at the end of your own arm.
- Choose your friends wisely. Where you are in 5 years will be determined by two things: what you read and with whom you associate. When you wrestle with a pig, the pig doesn't get clean.
- Stop blaming others. The world has enough victims. It doesn't need another one. Take responsibility for your failures as well as your success. You are exactly in life where you chose to be.
- Learn responsibility's major lessons:
- Gaining success means practicing self discipline. This is the first and greatest victory of any leader
- What you start, you finish. If people can't count on you to finish, you won't be entrusted with much responsibility.
- Know when others are depending on you. Sometimes it's about more than just you.
- Don't expect others to step in for you. Again, this has to do with seeing things through. At some point you're going to have to realized that you're the stop gap and that's a good thing. Be empowered by the fact that if something has to get done, you can do it.
- Make tough decisions and stand by them. People will respect you more for your resolve and your determination. No one likes a squid. Stick to your guns. Show your backbone.
- Take responsibility beyond yourself. To whom much is given, much is required. We all stood on the shoulders of giants. We own it to give someone else a lift.
The irony of the whole thing is that as we take on more responsibility and our impact increases, our rights actually decrease (selfishness fades away as we serve more and more people). In my opinion, it's a worthy trade. Freedom is not free. It is, however, always worth the price.
Saturday, September 13, 2008
Everything I know about love and leadership i learned from...

In the Dooley household, the big news is that Shell is now an aunt. I'm not sure if that makes me his uncle in law, his uncle, or just the guy his aunt married, but whatever the title, what it really makes me is happy for Shell. She's been looking forward to this for a long time. Congrats Shell. You're going to be the best aunt ever.
That being said, I've used the time while shell is out fawning over the new addition to the family to catch up on some sleep (hahahaha), reading and housework. My reading list has been rather erratic for the last month or so. I've read books on leadership, people skills, religion, finance, humor and marriage. It's been a challenge keeping it all straight, but I've come to the conclusion that it really doesn't matter how you put it in there. As long as you get it in there, you'll figure it out somehow.
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Today I was reading the one year bible. To be completely transparent, my heart was really only half in it. I had my day all planned out and I was itching to get started. I could hear errands and housework and todo lists calling my name. My mind was already half way to the book store when I got to 2 Corinthians 2.
Why I keep looking to new random authors to answer my questions, I have no idea. Every time I look to some hot new author to give me a 200 page explanation to my question, I have a day like today where it's all summed up in 2 pages. Everything I know about love and leadership I learned from Paul.
Let's set the stage. Paul has been running around the Middle East, preaching the word, getting arrested, planting churches, taking beatings, developing leaders, escaping execution, and at all times keeping a PMA. He's doing God's will, carrying the torch that Jesus passed to him. He's not perfect, but he's doing his best.
One day he hears about this new young church in Corinth. Emphasis on the words new and young. Corinth was kind of like an ancient New Orleans. Millions come to worship. Hundreds seek the cross. Never the less, he hears that this small group of people is trying to spread the word. They're trying to learn about this thing called Christianity. They're hungry to know about this man called Christ.
Lesson 1: Paul sees an opportunity to serve, so he goes. He doesn't ask for anything in return. Paul wants to be a blessing, so he takes what money and food he does have and goes to the people to serve them in whatever way he can.
When he gets there, he finds that the young church is having some growing pains. They are off the mark on quite a few areas: divisions in dogma, impropriety, gender confusion, marriage confusion, disorderly worship, borderline idolatry. It must have been quite a site for Paul. He comes expecting a vibrant young body of believers and he finds a gang of pagan converts shooting at nothing and hitting it every time.
Lesson 2: Paul sandwiches correction with praise and keeps the attention on Christ. Paul sees how far off the mark the church is, yet he still finds ways to praise the good before suggesting areas God would like to see them improve. Jesus does the same thing in Revelations when he's addressing the 7 churches. This is a very fine point. Paul isn't acting as a judge, he's positioning himself as a messenger; a servant; simply someone who accepts them either way, but whose obedience to God compells him to tell them these things.
Lesson 3: Paul offers God's solution for every area he criticizes. Rather than just correct them, Paul lays out God's will for their lives and lets them know the benefit of living God's way.
I've been praying for days for an answer to this very question and bam! There it is. It's a little leadership, but mostly it's just Paul loving on the church of Corinth. 2 Corinthians is where Paul shows some amazing leadership. Keep in mind, Paul has had a tough time since Jesus died. He's trying his best to keep all these churches afloat and in line with Jesus' teachings. He's poor, hungry, and constantly on the move. Every city he visits is on foot. Dr. Scholls and Berkenstocks weren't around just yet.
Now, it's time for Paul to return to Corinth and he gets word that nothing has changed. All that work. All that time. Speaking into their lives. Praying for them. Showing them the right way. All that work and they're no better off today that when he left them. What does Paul do?
Lesson 5: Paul knows his limits. He knows what his hot buttons are and rather than put himself in a situation where he could hurt the people he cares about, he shelves the visit for a few months and gives them time to digest his last visit.
Lesson 6: Paul gives the Corinthians room to grow. Paul gives them time to work through their own problems and succeed without him there to lean on.
Lesson 6: Paul is more concerned with developing leaders than developing a following. The easy thing to do would have been to go in there and lay down the hammer. Paul could have micromanaged the church. He could have come in and taken over and whipped everyone into shape himself, but that would not make the church any stronger. As soon as he left, the church would regress and all his work would be lost.
Rather than rushing in to fix things, Paul allows the church to struggle through it's problems without him. In doing so, he's forcing the leaders of the church to stand up and in doing so, become better able to overcome adversity in the future.
Lesson 7: Paul removes confusion. When Paul finally does arrive in Corinth, he removes any doubt or wonder as to why he didn't show up when he said he would be there originally. In doing so, he allows everyone to see his motives and know that it's not his will being done, but that of his Father in Heaven.
It's unbelievable what you can learn if you just read the right thing. I was going to dig through shelf after shelf of books trying to find answers to my question. "How do I help someone who's waay off the mark get back on target and still let them know I love them?" I was willing to spend a day or two to find a whole slew of answers. In one short chapter, Paul answers all my questions and more. I guess that's why they call it the Good Book.
Wednesday, August 20, 2008
How Would You Move Mt. Fuji?
I walk out the door every morning thanking the Lord for the great day I'm going to have and asking him to protect my family, faith and future. I ask him to bless me with the fruit of the spirit and arm me with the full armor of God (Ephesians 6:13-18). It's a powerful, sincere prayer that reminds me to believe on Him as well as in Him. There are tons of great prayers out there that I've heard people say works for them. This is just what I've found works for me at this season in my life.
That being said, as good as that constant conversation with Him is, there's something calming about just being alone with God. Taking the time to give Him my full attention does everything for me. They say the voice of God is like the call of the sea. No one can hear it but those who have in them the nature of the sea. I figure it's somewhere in those still, silent moments alone that we develop our sea ears. It was a good morning.
I had the pleasure of hearing Pastor Paul Mason share a message on TEAM (Together Everyone Achieves More) later that morning. He talked about how God has always built and worked through a team of people to move his Kingdom forward. Building God's Kingdom is a rather large task. It got me to thinking about a book I once read called How Would You Move Mt. Fuji. The book was a short explanation of Microsoft's riddle approach to interviewing candidates for key positions in the company. The questions are designed to see how you think. In most cases, the questions don't have any particular right or wrong answer; they are just designed so the interviewer can watch your wheels turn.
It's been about 4 years since I read the book and interviewed with MS. Since then I've been interviewed several times and heard many, many different riddles. To this day, "How would you move Mt. Fuji?" is still my favorite. Recently I had someone ask me the question again. Not surprisingly, my answer had changed.
Good riddles such as this stand the test of time because they speak to you at different phases of your life. I'll be completely transparent right now and admit that the first time I answered that question I included a cost and time breakdown as well as an attached note stating, "the actual costs may vary greatly depending on the relocation destination." That probably explains why I didn't get invited back for another interview ☺.
When I was asked the question again, my answer was shorter. It didn't involve shipping rates or currency exchange. It didn't depend on the annual rainfall in the South Pacific. My answer was simple. "How would you move Mt. Fuji?"
I'd believe I could do it.
Let me explain. Say I'm actually charged with moving Mt. Fuji. Hopefully you'll agree with me that Mt. Fuji is big enough that I cannot grab a shovel and hope to transplant it in my lifetime. That means that I'm going to need some help. In fact, it means I'll need a lot of help. I'll need an army of people – hundreds, maybe even thousands of people – all working together to get the job done. It means I'll need a team.
Any team that size is going to need leadership. What kind of leaders should I pull together? What characteristics should my leadership team have? Intelligence? A solid work ethic? Morality? Experience? Great communication skills? What should my team look like?
I've come to realize that what I want them to look like doesn't really matter. My team will look just like me. The book I read says that, "Like begets like." A friend of mine translated that for me one time as, "You can't make what you ain't is." That means that I can't create a team of people with great work ethics if I'm not a hard worker myself. I can't create a team of servant leaders if I don't serve people myself. I can't create a team of people with high moral standards if I don't hold myself to a high moral standard. Name the characteristic you want your team to have. It goes on and on. That's why leader is spelled "e-x-a-m-p-l-e."
So, my first step in moving Mt. Fuji is looking in the mirror and realizing that I've got some work to do on myself. If I want a great team to help me move the mountain, I'm going to have to shore up my own personal weaknesses. Am I a strong communicator? Am I good at facing and settling conflict? Am I a Godly husband? Am I the same in private as I am in person? Am I a liar? Am I good for my word? Am I a friend? Am I punctual? Am I an up-lifter of everyone around me? Am I a good listener? Am I an expert in the field I'm working in? Am I double minded? Ouch!!
Avoiding character issues is like scratching an itch with sand paper. It feels good for a second; but anything longer than that will scar you for life. I've been guilty of this. Truth be told, it's the reason I am where I'm at today. I looked in the mirror for a good 7 years convincing myself that there were no chinks in the armor. I kept telling myself that I didn't need to work on me. I convinced myself that if I surrounded myself with a bunch of people who had already faced their fears, mine would be hidden and they could pick up my slack. It was a nice idea, but it didn't work.
Life lesson 1: Influence is a prerequisite to leadership. People won't follow you if they have nothing to gain. In fact, your influence (and thus ability to lead people) is in direct proportion to the value to add to their life. The reason that I struggled so much to lead a team (baseball, work, friends, clubs, etc) of people way above my level was that I never had anything they wanted. If have less experience, money and character than everyone else, why would they follow me? Where could I possibly lead them that they couldn't go without me?
If you've ever watched cycling, associations are a lot like a peloton. A peloton is just a group of people riding together to reduce wind resistance. Rather quickly in any race, the top 10-20% of the riders naturally migrate toward one another to form the lead peloton. Everyone in the peloton is of comparable skill and focus. If you're a new or below average rider, your first competitive goal should be to catch up and ride with the peloton. It will make you stronger and teach you how to ride faster than you currently are. In fact the middle of the peloton is the best place to be in any race…unless you want to win. Winners see the peloton simply as a place where they can regain their strength before charging the front again. All winners know that the leader's jersey is never given to the middle of the pack. To be the leader means pulling away from the crowd and moving ahead.
It's the same way in life. Before I can lead anyone, I'm going to have to start separating myself from masses with good decisions, higher standards, and by taking more responsibility for who I am and where I want to go. It's called character and it's the foundation of all leadership. This is my first step in moving Mt. Fuji.
My next step in moving Mt Fuji is building my own belief. To do this I start digging. I dig when it's sunny. I dig when it's raining. I dig when it's snowing, sleeting and hailing. I dig in cold weather and the dead of night. I dig in the dog days of Summer. When I don't feel like digging anymore, I keep digging. I don't dig because I think I can move the mountain by myself. I dig because I'm proving to myself that the work is doable and I can do it. I'm proving to myself that even if no one else ever helped me move Mt. Fuji, I can and would still keep digging. I'm learning how to believe in myself.
Life lesson 2: Belief will always be found when going on faith one more time. I've found that the greatest part of any success is the journey. The journey is what makes it all worthwhile. It's where I earn my self-respect. It's where I begin to believe that I can win based on my decision not to quit. And it's where I choose to succeed based on my resolution to go one more time. It's called "one more time" mentality and it's the cornerstone of belief.
Consider Jesus. No one exemplified one more time mentality better than Jesus. Tied to a block and with the flesh torn from his back, he took a lash one more time. When the weight of the cross forced him to the ground, he willed himself back up and took another step forward one more time. When he hung from the cross with the weight of his body squeezing the air from his lungs, he pushed himself up and gasped for air one more time. Just before death, when he felt alone and abandoned in this world, he faithfully turned to prayer one more time. And when he had nothing left, having lost his very life, he rose from the grave to encourage us one more time.
Wherever there was a need, Jesus would go one more time. He never stopped moving forward. He stayed out front and never stopped saying, "You can do it too. You have what it takes. You can make a difference." That's a secret of leadership. Leaders don't weaken those around them by doing things for them that they can do for themselves. Leaders empower others to do things for themselves. Leaders know that if someone wants to rise up as a leader, they too will have to stand on their own and learn to go one more time. Leadership is never given; it must be earned. That's why leaders know the best thing they can be to their team is a good example. It is a constant reminder to the people on your team who want to become leaders of how to do so.
Life lesson 3: Belief is a snowball. That's why leaders never stand alone. As Bill Graham said, "Courage is contagious. When a brave man takes a stand, the spines of others are often stiffened." That's what Jesus meant when he told us that belief the size of a mustard seed can move mountains. It works like this: great leaders believe in themselves and their cause with such conviction that other people start believing in them. When people hear a great leader tell them they can do something, they start believing in themselves. When people start believing in themselves, success happens and the process repeats. Like begets like. The snowball starts moving. Pretty soon it's an avalanche. Look at back through history. Pick a hero. The story is the same. One man with belief is a majority.
This brings us back to the beginning. Belief is how you move mountains and it's how I'd move Mt. Fuji. I'd simply believe that I could do it. My belief would come from my knowledge of myself as a person as character and my unwavering commitment to do the work and prove to myself that the work was doable and I could do it.
I tell you that to remind you of this. Whatever your name; wherever your home; whatever your past or present circumstances; whatever cards you were dealt; the ability to move mountains lies in you. You can do it. Believe that you can move a mountain and start digging. You won't be digging alone for long.
Friday, August 15, 2008
hilarious article
by Matt Lau
A Google search of "I hate Quixtar" produces 55 results. What is this company called Quixtar and why would people bother creating a web page devoted to addressing their hatred of it?
Quixtar has been accredited by the Better Business Association since 1999, the year it started business, and was determined by the Federal Trade Commission to be a legal and viable business model. Since its launch in 1999 the company has recorded $6.8 billion in sales and has paid out $2.2 billion in bonuses and incentives to its distributors. Quixtar, through it's One by One charity program has donated over $50 million and over 800,000 volunteer hours to a number of charitable organizations, including the American Red Cross, International Aid, and Easter Seals.
On the surface, this company appears to be an American corporate success story, but there are several reasons why Quixtar is a "scam." (Scam defined as "a fraudulent scheme, esp. for making a quick profit; swindle.")
It has been discovered that some people who become IBO's (Independent Business Owners) start using products that they did not use previously. For example, one source cited that his college roommate began drinking energy drinks. But he did not drink energy drinks BEFORE he was in Quixtar. You see, Quixtar manufactures XS Energy Drinks, the second best-selling energy drink on the market (and the top-selling, American-manufactured energy drink). Do you see now how Quixtar is a scam? Prior to becoming a business owner that distributes XS, his roommate drank Pepsi, coffee, and probably beer; but instead of drinking those products, he began drinking a product that was manufactured by Quixtar. True, every single product manufactured by Quixtar is covered by a 100% money back guarantee for 180 days, including empty boxes of totally consumed products, but he was probably too embarrassed to ask for it. Instead, he spent hard-earned money on a product that he reps rather than spending his hard-earned money on a competitor's product. Scam! Just like the poor pretzel-cart vendor who spends $30,000 for his Pret-zilla franchise and ends up eating a pretzel every day for lunch instead of his usual hot dog on a stick. Or the McDonald's owner who was tricked by McDonald's corporation into no longer eating a Whopper every day. Or the owner of the Ford dealership that was tricked into driving a Ford instead of a Mitsubishi. Don't fall for these scams.
Upon further research into the "roommate investigation," it was discovered that some people spend more money on products than they earn in commissions. Looking at the "roommate investigation" research we find that the "roommate" bought energy drinks, but these energy drinks cost more than the commission he earned for buying these energy drinks. What a scam! You mean to tell me that the poor, witless IBO earns less than a 100% commission on each case of energy drinks? To see how unrealistic it is to make a profit, let's look at what an IBO needs to do to earn a commission equal to the cost of a single 12-pack of XS. With a retail price of $19.99 and an estimated 20% mark-up, that is only a $4.00 profit per case sold. So assuming the "roommate" had four customers that each purchased a 12-pack of XS energy drinks each month, he would only break roughly even if he drank his own 12-pack a month, thus blowing his $16 profit on something that could have been spent on Pepsi, coffee, or beer. Fortunately the investigator recognized this scam and refused to purchase any products from the "roommate."
A widely known fact of Quixtar is that everyone has heard of it and it has reached market saturation. These known facts of course trump company claims that every day, globally over 12,000 people sign up as new distributors in Quixtar North America and its sister company Amway Global.
A sinister secret that Quixtar doesn't want anyone to know about it, is that the average "active" Quixtar IBO earns only $115 in gross monthly income. This is such a damning secret, that Quixtar prints it on a document called the Quixtar Business Opportunity Brochure that is required to be given to all prospects seeing the business opportunity. Here in this document is also the definition of what an "active" IBO is:
"'Active' IBOs: Based on an independent survey during 2001, 'active' means an IBO who attempted to make a retail sale, or presented the Marketing Plan, or received bonus money, or attended a company or IBO meeting in the year 2000."
So according to the "roommate investigation," by attempting to sell an energy drink, he qualified as an "active" IBO. Yet, he didn't make any money. This is as blatant a scam as professional athletics. When you hear about the so-called huge average incomes that basketball players earn, they are actually only including those basketball players that play on NBA teams! But they purposely exclude the literally millions of kids playing at the college, high school, and little league level that never collect any money in income from playing basketball. Scam!
Another hidden secret of Quixtar, is that many of the high-income earners provide training materials to their organizations and sell them at a profit. Of course, all new Quixtar IBO's (Independent Business Owners) are required to sign a contract which informs them that all BSMs (Business Support Materials) are optional and that the producers and sellers of the BSMs may make profit or loss from their sale (like any other business). Also, BSMs are required by Quixtar to be covered by the same 100% money back guarantee for 180 days that all Quixtar products are covered by. But brand new people starting a Quixtar business should not be expected to read a contract that they are signing or visit Quixtar web sites to learn these things. Instead, they are sucked in to buying tapes, books, and tickets to motivational seminars. All a part of the Quixtar scam.
If you don't believe that Quixtar is a scam by reading this one article, then you can always read Eric Scheibeler's eBook, Merchant's of Deception. You can trust what he has to say since he is a failed IBO whose business fell apart, he attempted to sue Quixtar and other IBOs for millions of dollars in alleged damages, was forced to recant on allegations that he admitted were false, and then later started his own Multi-Level Marketing company (a competitor to Quixtar) which later failed.
So you see, Quixtar is a scam when you delve into the negative articles, blogs, and websites devoted to it. In fact, the only place you will hear anything positive about a company like Quixtar is from your state Attorney General's office, the Better Business Bureau, the U.S. Chamber of Commerce, the Federal Trade Commission, vice presidents of partner stores like Circuit City and Barnes & Nobles.com, charities such as Easter Seals, Red Cross, and U.S. Dream Academy, and business leaders like Robert Kiyosaki and Donald Trump. To get the true story on the Quixtar scam, limit your google search to "i hate quixtar." And to get the true story on some other truly negative things, try these other google searches:
"i hate democrats" (8390 results)
"i hate republicans" (11,200 results)
"i hate madonna" (4540 results)
"i hate donuts" (773 results)
"i hate cheese" (20,000 results), and of course...
"i hate cripples" (66 results)
Learn more about this author, Matt Lau.
Monday, August 11, 2008
Wild at Heart
"Where are all the real men?" You asked them to be women. How can a man know he is one when h is highest aim is minding his manners? [Men] know their heart is on the run, but they often do not know where to pick up the trail.
Instead of asking what you think you ought to do to become a better man, I want to ask, What makes you come alive? In the heart of every man is a desperate desire for a battle to fight, an adventure to live, and a beauty to rescue.
A Battle to Fight:
Aggression is part of the masculine design, we are hardwired for it...Life needs a man to be fierce - and fiercely devoted. The wounds he will take throughout his life will cause him to lose heart if all he has been trained to be is soft. This is especially true in the murky waters of relationships, where a man feels least prepared to advance.
Women didn't make Braveheart one of the best-selling films of the decade. The Patriot, Rocky, Troy, Die Hard, Saving Private Ryan, Top Gun, Gladiator - the movies a man loves reveal what his heart longs for, what is set inside him from the day of his birth.
An Adventure to Live:
There's a reason the American cowboy has taken on mythic proportions. he embodies a yearning every man knows from very young - to "go West," to find a place where he can be all the knows he was meant to be.
If a man has lost this desire, says he doesn't want it, that's only because he doesn't know he has what it takes. He believes that he will fail the test. And so he decies it's better not to try...Most men hate the unknown and, like Cain, want to settle down and build their own city, get on top of their life. But you can't escape it - there is something wil in the heart of every man.
A Beauty to Rescue:
A man wants to be the hero to the beauty.. It's not just that a man needs a battle to fight; he needs someone to fight for. Remember Nehemiah's words to the few brave souls defending a wall-less Jerusalem? "Don't be afraid...fight for your brothers, your sons and your daughters, your wives and your homes." The battle itself is never enough; a man years for romance. It's not enough to be a hero; it's that he is a hero to someone in particular, to the woman he loves.
The Feminine heart:
Every woman years to be fought for. She wants to be wanted. She wants to be pursued.
Every woman also wants an adventure to share. A woman doesn't want to be the adventure; she wants to be caught up into something greater than herself...There is also a deep desire to simply and truly be the beauty, and be delighted in.
The world kills a woman's heart when it tells her to be tough, efficient, and independent. [Face it] a Christian woman is...tired. No one is fighting for her heart; there is no grand adventure to be swept up in; and every woman doubts very much that she has any beauty to unveil...as for your own femininity, which would you rather have said of you - that you are a "tireless worker," or that you are a "captivating woman?"
God gave us eyes so that we might see; he gave us ears that we might hear; he gave us wills that wwe might choose, and he gave us hearts that we might live. The way we handle the heart is everything. A man must know he is powerful; he must know he has what it takes. A woman must know she is beautiful; she must know she is worth fighting for....Your heart may feel dead and gone, but it's there. Something wild and strong and valiant, just waiting to be released.
...For if you are going to know who you truly are as a man, if you are going to find a life worth living, if you are going to love a woman deeply and not pass on your confusion to your children, you simply must get your heart back.
Friday, May 16, 2008
Pink Leadership
Greatness is expected. It must be value driven.
Enthusiasm is contageous.
Vision must first be cast from leadership, then people can rally behind it, only then can one inspire people to achieve.
Consistency is a staple of vision.
People look for specific traits in leaders
- integrity
- respectfullness
- compassion
- honesty
- fairness
If corporations are to realize their potential, it's as custodians fo the human spirit.
Leaders are listeners.
Leadership will be lost without raising up leaders who can communicate your vision.
Chapter 1:
Women changed their attitudes, life goals, business philosophy as a result of the association.
Such change was possible only because of the example set by leadership. They lived their lives and ran the company with the values they taught. With such an example, in such an environment, change was welcomed and expected.
"If you can conceive it, and if you believe it, you can achieve it."
What you do is more important than what you say. Build your business, your relationships, your life on unchangeables. On what foundation do you build your life?
One rule: Do Right!
Inspire those around you with a foundation of leadership that inspires the people around them - and those who follow them - to achieve success.
Ensure every person in the organization understand the principles behind the organization. Again, this means communicating a common ethos throughout your group. In this way you produce a principled organization.
"Seek the best for others, the profits will follow."
Chapter 2:
Focus not on results, but hte behaviors that create results.
Treat people wwell. Build people up instaed of tearing down.
Long term success is founded on people. "They're the only thing that appreciates in value your whole life."
Be the example first and always. Lead from the front. Leadership begins at home. The speed of the group is determined by the speed of the leader.
The stronger the character of the leader, the more likely they are to be successful guiding a company. - Can't create something you are not. - Like begets like.
Six Virtues of A Great Leader:
1. Humility: recognized the significance in others.
- be humble
- be concerned with those around you. no one cares how much you know until they know how much you care.
2. Seed the Best for Others: the only way to maximized your income is to maximize other people.
- invest in people. they are the world's greatest asset.
- seek and surround yourself with talent. Henry Ford was not an encyclopedia. Ben Franklin was not a doctor.
- encourage the best for others. help them to achieve their dreams. edify up, empower down, and get caught up in between.
- "Treat your business as any full time career and the rewards will come."
3. Expect Excellence: create high standards and believe in people to achieve more than they thought possible.
- Expect more of yourself first and others second.
"Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show it by his good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom." James 3:13
- Instill in your people the discipline needed to achieve the lofty heights of their potential.
- ask people to commit to max out who they are.
"and when it is all said and done, God will look down upon me and say that I used up every bit of talent He gave me."
"The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena; whose face is marred by sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs and comes short again and again because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotion, spends himself in a worthy cause; who at best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement; and who at worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who have never tasted victory or defeat."
4. Integrity: if you give your word, keep it. Period.
"With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in God's likeness. 10Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers, this should not be." James 3:9-10
- regardless of cost
- creates magnetism. integrity draws people to you.
5. Impatience with the Status Quo: constantly innovate to stay ahead.
6. Indomitable Spirit: Success is build on failure.
"Success has less to do with our abilities and much more to do with our commitment to achieve excellence in spite of our shortcomings."
ONE VISION!!! - Help others succeed. If they don't it's unlikely you will either.
